General Funeral Questions
Generally, no. If your body is accepted for medical research, the donor program or medical school will donor program or medical school usually covers the cost of the cremation and burial tasks once they are finished.
Yes. If you wish to donate your body to medical research, you must clearly state it in writing prior to death. The most common way to donate your body to medical research involves contacting a donor program, which is usually affiliated with a local medical school. You will need to complete any required forms so the documents will be filed in readiness for when death occurs. Your family will need to contact the donor program immediately following your death. The medical school will make arrangements to pick up the body and transport it back to their facility.
Yes. A private or home viewing by family members and close friends is permissible without embalming.
Embalming is meant to temporarily halt the process of decomposition in a dead body. Embalming does not preserve the body indefinitely, even within a sealed casket. The rate of decomposition may vary in an embalmed body, depending on the embalming method used, the strength of the chemicals, and the humidity and temperature of the final resting place.
During the initial days following the death of a loved one, it is common for the bereaved to feel numb or in denial that the death has really happened. Having a viewing is important because it helps the mourners to move toward a degree of closure and acceptance regarding the finality of their loved one’s death.
A vigil is a Roman Catholic religious service held on the eve of the funeral.
A wake is a watch kept over the deceased, held the night before the funeral. It may last the entire night.
The viewing offers relatives and friends of the deceased an opportunity to view the closed casket in private before the funeral ceremony. The visitation is usually held in a private room at the funeral home or cemetery chapel.
The visitation offers relatives and friends of the deceased an opportunity to view the open casket in private before the funeral ceremony. The visitation is usually held in a private room at the funeral home or cemetery chapel.
The burial permit is a legal document used to authorize burial, cremation, scattering or disinterment. The funeral director usually obtains the burial permit on behalf of the family.
No. In most states, families can bury their own dead. They will still need to comply with local and state regulations and obtain the necessary permits and forms.
The funeral director’s job is to assist the bereaved in various ways to help them through the loss of a loved one. A funeral director provides bereavement and consolation services for the living, in addition to making arrangements for the cremation, burial, and memorial services for the deceased. He fulfills the role of funeral arranger, funeral director, funeral attendant, and embalmer.
The following list is not all-inclusive, but describes some of the major tasks of a funeral director:
- Removal and transfer of the deceased from the place of death to the funeral home
- Professional care of the deceased, including embalming, casketing, and cosmetology
- Consulting with family to make arrangements for the funeral service
- Filing certificates, permits, and other required forms
- Obtaining copies of the death certificate
- Making arrangements with the cemetery, crematory, or other places of final disposition
- Creates and publishes the obituary
- Makes arrangements for clergy, music, flowers, transportation, pallbearers, and special fraternal or military services
- Directs and manages the funeral service and the funeral procession
- Assists the family with death-related claims, including Social Security, VA insurance, grief counseling
It provides a dignified place to remember and memorialize the dead. Having a place to visit helps the survivors process their grief and move closer to healing.
- Apply for an exhumation license. It is best to contact the cemetery directly for guidance on what forms and permissions will need to be obtained.
- Get approval from religious officials. You may need a license or written permission from the affiliated church in order to remove the body from consecrated grounds.
- Follow local environmental and health regulations. The exhumation will need to be done under the supervision of an environmental health officer who can ensure that all appropriate safety measures are followed and potential health hazards are addressed.
- Make body transfer plans. If you are transferring the body, you will have to purchase a new casket. Cremation of the body is recommended due to the problem of natural decay and expense of transport. Your funeral home can guide you in the proper handling of these matters.
Exhumation is the act of disinterring, or digging up, a body that has been buried in the ground. Exhumation is only allowed under very specific circumstances, and only after all appropriate permissions from local authorities have been granted and appropriate environmental health guidelines are followed.
Some Reasons That A Body Might Be Exhumed Include:
- A court-ordered exhumation that is part of a criminal investigation
- Public health reasons (for example, if a graveyard is being moved)
- Family reasons (if the family of the deceased wishes to move the body to another burial ground, or transport abroad, etc.)